Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Enlightment...

I finally knew why... I got enlightened somehow...

You can tell everyone how strong your relationship with your loved ones,
When you say this, you should have known them very well...
Every single detail of their life...
What they love and HATE most...

BUT, you shall never say anything out to her if you 'knew' it might hurt them...
NEVER EVER...
No matter how long you know this person or how 'funny' you think the 'joke' is...
What is hurtful is hurtful... and
What is said cannot be reversed...

That is why manners are so important...
Always keep it in mind...

Do think twice or at least let your conversation be filtered through your brain...

Before everything is too late...

Thursday, November 05, 2009

Fragile...

Life is fragile...

That includes the anatomical part of your body as well as the external associated behaviour...

I used to believe that when you have a strong bond in something it will be harder for it to break... Just like when you train a muscle well enough it is not so easily exposed to injuries...

But now i felt that there are nothing much you can control in life...
yes you can do whatever you can to strengthened it... But there are no guarantee that it will not break...
And then again, the healing process may take years and even your whole life...
The very classical example to relate this in life would be any relationship you developed...
When it has to break, it will break...

Some people wouldn't want to spend time finding ways to heal it but instead they will find an alternative way to overcome it (if it is possible)...

Maybe you don't accept this kind of method, or should you say you are just not used to it? you cannot forget the past doesn't mean other people can't...

Instead of looking forward, you will remain in that position thinking whether you were at least remembered...

How foolish isn't it?