Wednesday, January 07, 2009

My dad the HERO...

I really felt like abandoning my blog... until a few minutes ago something happened and the thoughts flew across my mind...

And it made me feel like crying...

My dad...

Yes sometimes he is fierce and scary when he is not in a good mood... And we as a children will think that our dad don't understand our feelings but only insists in his own ways...
But always remember, everyone in this world has the right too feel unhappy in life... So why not our DADs?

Yes sometimes he would do something beyond expectation such as fixing the lamp to the night sensor lamp which we think that its not a need, fixing a water heater in his bathroom where he seldom used, buying things that we think its not relevant and etc etc...
But at the end of the day, no matter how much grumbling we said to him, how much disagreement we said, he will continue to do what he wants...
And eventually we found out that all those that he did and bought were actually very useful...

He always say that we don't think outside the box. I agree.

Btw, it is his hobby to do DIY jobs...
Everyone has their own hobby, why can't our DADs?
(Does your dad stop you from doing your favourite hobbies?) But dad, can you please be careful?

Yes i know very clearly that my dad are getting older day by day... Human tends to be more grumpy as they get older...
But you think this is what they wished?
Try and imagine when you can't perform a task when you can easily do during the younger days, how much frustration you have to bear?
Everyone has their right to get older and grumpy, why can't our DADs?

Come to think of it, my dad had seldom say no when i asked him for any kind of help...
i really owe my dad alot alot alot...

When i was younger, he spent his time and money driving me here and there for badminton coaching... No matter how far and how expensive it is...
During the training days, I am very afraid of my dad... I will be super tensed if he was sitting there watching me during competitions... And if i lose any of them, he would just scold and scold and scold until i cry...
I made it to the state level... Thanks to him...
But as time goes by, i kinda understand why he scold me so harshly... He spent so much time, money and effort for me but i played without any fighting spirit on court, giving up so easily...
Everyone has the right to scold when they didn't get what they wished for, why can't our DADs?

I know his dream is to see me excel in badminton, to the national and international level...
I'm sorry dad i couldn't make it...

My dad would give me the very best in anything...
He would wanna fetch me home from college even though he wasn't anywhere near there...(but telling me he is near...)
He would buy all of us breakfast every weekends morning...
He would buy anything i want...(useful things ok...)
He would allow us to sleep till noon...
He would etc etc.... The list will never end...

For now, i don't know what to say...

I just hope that both my parents will have extra longer life so that i can treat them as well as possible...
Because i know that i can never repay what my parents did for me... What i can do and ALL OF US should do is to be a filial daughter and son without causing any trouble or disappointment to them... THIS WOULD BE THE HAPPIEST AND PRICELESS GIFT to them...

I would do just anything to make them smile... I promise...

It's EASY, Isn't it?

Thank you MOM and DAD!!! Both of you are the MOST SPECIAL mom and dad in the world... Thank you for your guidance along our growing curve and made me who i am now...
I LOVE YOU... You are the BEST!!!