HAPPY...

Ever found yourself frustrated over things that you think you can control but you can't?

Result: increased stress level that could lead to many other major problems.

Ever quarreled with your loved ones over small tiny matters that does not worth mentioning at all?

Result: On top of increase stress level, relationship were shaken.

Why does finding out the CAUSE so important?

sometimes the causes were very straightforward but yet people still insist to find out something solid to be blamed on... BUT DOES THIS GET YOU ANY FURTHER?

we knew the answer: problem still unsolved.

Why does people hold on to something so tightly?

In my opinion, if you have done the best you could but the result weren't what you expected, it is time for you to LET GO...

Letting go does not mean giving up, it means guiding you to another direction, the ultimate one...

God gave us a chance to live in this world, you can say its torturing or what so ever...

But the fact is you still have to live! so live it happily!

Being happy is really simple...

It is not about striking lottery or getting good grades in exam or even survived any diseases (just that i have mentioned, when it is time to let go, we let go)...

Being happy is about helping... I do not restrict it to only human... you can help ALMOST anything...

It does not have to have any rewards in return and you will feel happy from the bottom of your heart...

Trust me...

SO GO OUT THERE AND HELP SOMETHING!

LIVE YOU LIFE HAPPILY!

Just let go of everything! your work, stress, money, fame, beauty and etc...

you want to be happy? JUST HELP!

Noticing...

It has always been there...

But why is it now that people start noticing it?

(Maybe it has gone a little worst)

What are they looking at before this?

Is this suppose to be a good or bad sign?

What does God trying to hint me in this situation?

(Because i believe that everything happens for a reason)

Sometimes what we think is BAD isn't so bad after all...

There must be something behind it... A reason...

Of course we have no idea and we can't predict what is God's purpose,

the least we can do is not to think about how much damage that particular situation got us into...

but instead try to think that are various possibilities of advantage we can get from it...

Right now...

In the situation I am facing...

The possibilities are...

1. Maybe God wants me to find someone who loves me and doesn't care about these?

2. Maybe God wants other people to notice the bigger difference on it when they see me later on?

3. Maybe God wants to give me the worst out of it and solve it once and for all?

4. Maybe God wants me to practice good habits for healthier life?

See?

There could be so many other possibilities rather than just complaining why God did this to you...

Thus making life so much more relaxing and meaningful isn't it?

Of course, most of the time the answer wouldn't be so easy...

But we need to think of other possibilities (looking at another angle) to avoid us from believing towards the negative side...

Get it?

Thomas/Uber Cup Updates

I went to watch Thomas and Uber Cup live on the 12th of May!

Most importantly...

With VIP Pass!!!

It's worth RM 3,008!!

With this, and the help of my ex-national player friend...

Ta-dah......!!!

Both of them are just enormously handsome!!

Especially LIN DAN!!

'Decorations' outside the stadium...

Well, It is still a long way to go for Malaysia to grab the Thomas/Uber Cup...

For the time being, CHINA is still the unbreakable GREAT WALL...

Each and every aspect are PERFECT!!

They CAN be ARROGANT!!

I really solute them!!

My favorite players would be:

Zhang Ning (China)

Lin Dan (China)

Peter Gade Christensen (Denmark)

Taufik Hidayat (Indonesia)

Lee Yong Dae (Korea)

Used to...

Life is a challenge...

Challenge to deal with new arising issues...

But on the other hand, the challenge is to deal with same old issue you had which was a new issue long time ago...

When there is no solution to the issue,
human will tend to get used to them.

But it is not easy to get used to something,
this needs a lot of time and courage...
Sometimes it needs a lot of sacrifices,
before you can overcome it...

So then you will ask,
'what is the purpose of living then?'
Well, everyone has different answers for this question...
But it all comes down to 2 common meanings...
1) Doing something you love.
2) Love somebody.

So no matter how complicated life goes into,
hang on to these 2 basic principles...
And most importantly BELIEVE IN YOURSELVES!!!
What other people think of you is not at all important...

BECAUSE YOU LIVE FOR YOURSELVES,
not for them FOR GOODNESS SAKE!!!

random updates...

I noticed that my blog seldom have pictures... Its because I'm just too lazy to plug in the memory card and upload them to the blog... hehe i love more words hehe...
Okie back to story...
Yes i was quite down for the past few months... But now I'm officially 'ok'... Finally got through all of it...
Don't ask me how, i just did... hehe...
*Now my everyday aim is to live happily and be a filial daughter*


My dog is someone who will always be there for me whenever i need her...
I do more shopping for her than for myself...
I think for her more than i think for myself...
She is the laughter and of course anger for my family...
She is in my family for almost a year now...
Sometimes i felt that she has the exactly same attitude and behaviour like me...
REALLY!!
Despite all the troubles and anger she gave us,
I'm afraid to think of the day i will leave you,
I LOVE YOU TWEETY!!

She ate something weird while she's having a walk outside today and came back vomiting... She was so quiet the whole night... But guess what, my dad actually suggested to feed her pil chi kit!! haha... And yes, she does eat them (it feels crunchy too!) lol... I think she is better now...

When she first came to our house... (I didn't trap her in ok, she went in between the chairs herself)

Growing...

Favourite sleeping position... haha...

my lovely tweety... (the toy got tangled up around her collar while she was playing with it)


Today i was stuck in the toilet in neway karaoke room...
My friends were singing and shouting happily outside until i knocked and screamed at the door... haha...
They tried to help me out, but there is nothing they can do so they called the waiter...
He asked me to stand back and kicked the door hard to save me...
IT WAS SO EMBARRASSING... GOSH...
I think the door knob is completely damaged...
oops sorry? haha... FIX IT, DAMN IT!

Enlightment...

I finally knew why... I got enlightened somehow...

You can tell everyone how strong your relationship with your loved ones,
When you say this, you should have known them very well...
Every single detail of their life...
What they love and HATE most...

BUT, you shall never say anything out to her if you 'knew' it might hurt them...
NEVER EVER...
No matter how long you know this person or how 'funny' you think the 'joke' is...
What is hurtful is hurtful... and
What is said cannot be reversed...

That is why manners are so important...
Always keep it in mind...

Do think twice or at least let your conversation be filtered through your brain...

Before everything is too late...

Fragile...

Life is fragile...

That includes the anatomical part of your body as well as the external associated behaviour...

I used to believe that when you have a strong bond in something it will be harder for it to break... Just like when you train a muscle well enough it is not so easily exposed to injuries...

But now i felt that there are nothing much you can control in life...
yes you can do whatever you can to strengthened it... But there are no guarantee that it will not break...
And then again, the healing process may take years and even your whole life...
The very classical example to relate this in life would be any relationship you developed...
When it has to break, it will break...

Some people wouldn't want to spend time finding ways to heal it but instead they will find an alternative way to overcome it (if it is possible)...

Maybe you don't accept this kind of method, or should you say you are just not used to it? you cannot forget the past doesn't mean other people can't...

Instead of looking forward, you will remain in that position thinking whether you were at least remembered...

How foolish isn't it?